Cohabitation Before Saying “I Do”



As humans, we evolve our lives to find someone we can exist with. Society has provided us with the means to do so, by marrying. In most cultures it is considered traditional and in cases is even required to marry before living with a partner.
On the opposite end of this spectrum, it can be very healthy, raw and conscious-expanding to move in with them. Living beside another person in all of you daily habits shows you the energy of that person in its purest form.
The definition of cohabit from the Webster Dictionary reads as follows:

1 :to live together as or as if a married couple
  • They cohabited in a small apartment.
2 a :to live together or in company
  • buffaloes cohabiting with crossbred cows
  • Biol. Abstracts
b :to exist together
As humans, we evolve our lives to find someone we can exist with. Society has provided us with the means to do so, by marrying. In most cultures it is considered traditional and in cases is even required to marry before living with a partner.
On the opposite end of this spectrum, it can be very healthy and conscious expanding to move in with them. Living beside another person in all of you daily habits shows you the energy of that person in its purest form.

Here is a few of reasons that choosing to live together before marriage could be the right choice:
You get to see and expose yourself to all of the “uncomfortable” things. That’s right, all of the little habits you never thought you would ever be able to reveal. You and your partner will not always be presented how you were when you were apart. It is raw and beautiful when you love someone for all that they are.
It gives you a taste of what your future will be like. Day in and day out, how you vibe in response to your partner is the clearest indicator of how your relationship will grow.
You have the chance to build a foundation that the marriage will continue to build off of.

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